Getting back to Budget Basics

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Back to a Budget of Austerity

Well I am back to living on the Austerity Budget.  The Budget of Austerity is what I call the budget that I use when I am about one step up from survival mode.  It covers the purchases of basic needs, and I look harder for deals and sales and use coupons, and Groupons.   The reason for this is that  I took off most of the month of March without pay, took a 2 week  vacation, purchased a new king sized bed, attended a convention and co-hosted a party of 100 people.  I had enough money saved in anticipation of March, but did end up digging into my savings to pay for some of it, and all of it I paid for with my credit card in order to collect travel points.  I am not favorable toward carrying a balance though and as of last week I had some work to do in order to pay off my credit card and money that I had taken from my line of credit before there was any opportunity for interest charges to kick in.

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In order to pay off my credit card and take my line of credit to  a zero balance I lent myself money from a retirement savings account which I use as my emergency fund.  I still have enough money in the account to carry me through at least 3 months of income loss. I am not suggesting that people deplete their emergency funds to make frivolous purchases. The vacation, party, conference and new bed purchase were not an emergency situation – they  fit the category of wants, not needs.  However, I will not carry credit card debt or keep my line of credit in an interest incurring state and I needed a way to pay them down, so I lent myself the money to pay off the frivolity.

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In order to pay off my the outstanding balances on my credit cards and line of credit I borrowed money from my emergency fund.  This is a registered retirement savings account. It is not my retirement fund, it is a place that I put money in order to defer taxes and it functions as my emergency fund. As with any loan,  I need to pay back my loan that I took from my registered fund. Because it is a registered plan, the government withheld 10% for taxes. I received exactly enough to pay off my credit card and my line of credit.

Now I need to pay back the loan and I need to have the money back in the account by Feb 28, 2017.  In order to do this I have added  $150.00 per month to my regular monthly budget to deposit back into the fund. I will roll in monies from my biannual work bonus into it as well.  By doing this I will be able to repay the loan, I will not have to pay any taxes on the cashed in registered retirement monies at tax time, the money will be back in my account, and I will not have paid any interest on the purchases.  Again, this retirement fund is not the monies that I will use for my retirement, it is monies that I keep as an emergency fund, and I still have enough money in it to satisfy my emergency fund requirements.  The last time that I borrowed from this account, I used the monies to pay off the $18,000 remaining balance of a mortgage loan on  property that I own.  I paid off that mortgage 3 years early, freeing myself of a $667.00 monthly mortgage payment.  That was one of the things that I did that allowed me to cut from full to part time employment.

Over time, it is easy to become complacent with your money and to deviate from your budget, particularly if you have come through an income loss and have adjusted to the financial revisions of that income reduction. This is what happened to me this spring.  I thoroughly researched  my finance my vacation,and all of the other things that I spent money on in order to get the best deals possible. It is obviously not something that I would have been able to do in a financial crisis mode. After a crisis period subsides and you learn to creatively to modify the means that you use  meet your needs, a complacency can set in.  It’s like cheating on your diet.  Whether it’s a small cheat or a big cheat, it’s best to have a plan for getting back on budget.


Epic Fail Bathmat price comparison

Well I decided that the time had come to purchase a new bathmat for the powder room.

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The old ratty bathmat

Being in the market for a new one I decided to do some price comparisons.  I narrowed the choices down to these two.

This one is from Costco and costs $14.99

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$14.99 at Costco

This one is from Giant Tiger and costs $6.00

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$6.00 at Giant Tiger

These are both memory foam bathmats.  Why my feet need to have memory foam I don’t know.

Because I do tend to do things on the cheap I bought the $6.00 Giant Tiger mat.   The Costco bathmat was plush and cushy and really very nice.  The Giant Tiger bathmat looked a bit smaller, and was not as plush and cushy but because it is going into a powder room and because I have purchased similar bathmats from there in the past, I thought it would be fine.  It isn’t.

bathmats together

The GT bathmat is smaller than the one I wanted to replace.  It is way too small.  It was hard to tell that it would be this much smaller when I was looking at it in the store.  I may as well put a facecloth on the floor and call that the new bathmat.

This is a good reminder that while this purchase would have saved me a little bit of money, it was not the best deal for my purposes.  I generally love Giant Tiger but this purchase backfired.

I feel better though since I found a Groupon for Breakfast for 2 for $15.99 that came with a $10.00 off discount code.  So before I returned the bathmat, my husband and I went for breakfast that would have cost $24.98 that cost me $5.99 + .80 (tax).





Tuesday is the New Friday

Dinner and a movie Date Night for $30

If you generally have come to think to Friday or Saturday night being the appropriate night for date night, just because that seems like the mainstream days to do that sort of thing, it might be good to re-evaluate your choice of nights to participate in those activities.  Tuesday is considered to be a slow day, so businesses in the hospitality industry often offer reduced prices on this day.

movie theater

Many move theaters offer reduced general admission on Tuesdays.  If you check you may find that you have a 2nd run movie cinema in your local area.  This is a movie theater that shows movies that have been pulled from the main stream theaters in order to make room for the new movies.   We have a 2nd run cinema in my area that charges an admission price of $5.00 per person, all movies, all days of the week.


On Tuesdays, (actually usually from Sunday through Tuesday), many of the Italian restaurants in my area reduce their regular pasta dish prices to as low as $8.99.

Place Setting

So, a Tuesday night date night could look like this:

Pasta  dinner:  2 x $8.99 = $17.98.
2 movies at a second run cinema @ 5.00 per person = 10.00.

Total cost $28.98.









Life after Layoff: How to Survive and Thrive

10 Things to do after a job loss

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If, like a lot of people, you have enjoyed steady employment, and a reliable income, you have built a lifestyle and entered into a comfort zone associated with that lifestyle that may come with a hefty price tag.  We have ways of justifying our activities, particularly the high end activities such as travel, entertainment, clothing and personal luxuries such as massages and mani/pedis.


So now there you are.  Out on the street with your box containing your coffee mug, the contents of your work cubby and your layoff notice.  Job loss can happen at any time, for any reason.  It may be as a result of economic downturn, sudden illness or disability, or in some situations by choice.  Whatever the reason, whether it be by circumstance or by choice, how prepared are you to be suddenly without all or a significant portion of your income?

Loss of income brings personal stress, financial stress, relationship stress, loss of confidence, hopelessness and nights spent tossing and turning while trying to figure out how to handle the situation and how to move forward.

So how can you prepare for this?  The experts suggest that you have enough savings to cover basic expenses for 3-6 months set aside in an emergency account.  Most people don’t. If you find yourself suddenly out of work with in an emergency situation with no income source, no severance pay, no savings, no plan and only the money in your pocket, here are some ideas for you.

1. Revise your monthly budget or create one if you don’t have one.  List all of your absolutely non-negotiable monthly expenses.  Remove any unnecessary expenses that constitute wants and not needs.  Pare your expenses down to bare minimum to determine the least amount of money that you can survive on.

Gather enough money to hold you over until the Unemployment insurance comes in and recognize that when it does come in you will be living on a reduced amount of money. With a straightforward claim it may take 6 weeks to receive the first cheque after filing. Calculate how much you will need to just get by until the first payment comes in. The most important priorities are the roof over your head, food and medicine and transportation to look for work or to get to work once you find a new job.

2  Contact your local food bank and social service agency to determine whether you may qualify for any financial assistance.

3. If you have things that you don’t need or use that you can sell on online or by any other means, gather them together and find a way to sell them.  Online selling sites, garage sales, pawn shops and social media are all good places to consider if you have things that you can sell and need to to sell them quickly to raise cash.

4. Contact your bank to see if you can skip one month mortgage or car loan payments. If you have to be late with your rent your landlord will serve you with a 14 day eviction notice, but the notice is void if you pay the rent within the 14 day period.

5 .Check to see if you have any points on any of your credit cards or points cards that you can cash in use to cover expenses. If you have loyalty points with a grocery chain, now is a good time to use them to stock up on food essentials.

6. Get your resume in order. There are different types of resumes.  If you are a professional and know that you will be competing for entry level retail positions with hundreds of other people, you need to “dumb down” your resume.  Walmart may not want to hire you to stock shelves if they know you are going to bolt back to your old line of work as soon as the economy picks up. Update your Linked in Profile.  Contact the people on your contact list and let them know you are looking for work.

7 .If there is a neighborhood Facebook page or website, put it out there that you are looking for work.

8. Contact and register with Temporary “Temp” work agencies.

9. If your Unemployment Insurance claim is denied, appeal the decision.

10.  Revise your priorities. The immediate period after layoff or job loss is about survival.  It is a time and find a way to create a plan B.  If there has to be a silver lining let it be redefining the way that you thought that you had to live in order to live dream or keep up with the Jones or just to live within your own comfort zone.

With creativity and a new plan based on info that you were unaware of or never has a reason to pay any attention to, there are alternative ways to rebuild your life and to fulfill your wants and needs.


What is a HighEndCheapskate


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A HighEndCheapskate is someone that recognizes the fluidity of the economy and has learned how to define and meet their needs and wants under a wide variety of financial circumstances. A lot of people consider themselves to be thrifty, money conscious, and deal savvy by nature.  But there are also a lot of people who have never really thought much about it.  They spend as they please, seldom looking for cheaper alternatives until for whatever reason they have to.  Then, with no tools at their disposal, they are left wondering how to fill their needs and wants on perhaps a drastically reduced budget.

Despite the good advice that while you may starve as your are working your way through College, you are working to secure your financial future. Life does not necessarily heed that advise, and throws financial curveballs at you from time to time.  These curveballs that create negative income change may be planned or unplanned, such as a termination of employment, a maternity leave, retirement, or just a desire to work less without rendering your standard of living unrecognizable.

Here is an example of the difference between a tightwad,  Average Joe and a HighEndcheapskate. These are all people that have different concepts as to what constitutes saving money.  Suppose you take a vacation.   Its time for dinner.  The tightwad may not even be there.  He may be too cheap to take the trip at all, so he is at home.  If he is there, is there and he and his party hit up a fast food burger joint.



Average Joe is the guy at the beach front patio restaurant paying full price for his meal.   The HighEndCheapskate is the guy at the table next to Average Joe.  He is enjoying the same ambience and maybe even the same meal, but at half the cost because he remembered to purchase his groupon for the restaurant before he departed for his trip.  Average Joes Bill is $100.00, HighEndCheapskates bill is $50.00.


HighEndCheapskate is about having the mindset and tools to get the best bang for the buck. It is about creating a lifestyle that combines financial thrift with savvy in order to get what you need or want in good or challenging financial circumstances.  Its a mindset of achieving wants and needs and the means of obtaining them by utilizing tools such as prioritizing, resisting impulse buying, researching options, and sometimes making compromise. It is about refining your spending habits to get you through good times and bad. It is the ability to deal with anticipation of income reduction and creating and navigating these situations in order to not just survive financially, but to meet the challenges and to thrive is a financial crisis and thereafter.

Bang for the buck, creating new expections and a new mindset in order to fulfill your needs and wants is what being a HighEndCheapskate is all about.   It is a combination of being thrifty, frugal and debt free, (0r working toward it),  and having and doing as much as you can while working with what you have to work with.  Being cheap for the sake of being cheap is like having a method without any madness at the end of it.  There are reasons to be frugal, such as:

1.Survival Mode:  Survival mode is about meeting immediate needs and moving forward after income loss or reduction. People that have suffered income loss that are trying just to get by and meet basic needs and dealing with the fact that it is difficult to meet these needs.  There are wants too.  Just because you are flat broke doesn’t mean that you don’t have wants.  It requires creating and adhering to a basic and tight budget, a budget of Austerity.

2.Ongoing Cheapskate:  People that are a step past Survival Mode.  There is enough income coming in to get by, but there is an ongoing need to acquire needs and wants creatively.  There is more flexibility in the budget.  Example:  Date night of dinner and a movie on Cheap Tuesdays.

3.Cheapskate Splurge:  The Budget of Austerity can be relaxed a bit in order to accommodate the desired purchase.  Example: not booking a flight with points and paying cash because you found a great deal on flight that does not involve a 9 hour layover.

The idea behind HighEndCheapskate is to become competent to handle your finances by recognizing the fluidity of the economy and being able to transition from one mode to another in order to survive and thrive through the tough times and the good times.